Table 2 Description of code groups and sub-codes

Feeling left out, insecure and worried, partners took it upon themselves to obtain information.

• Being right in the middle of things but without understanding what was going on

• Uncertainty and worry about wife and child

• Taking responsibility for the help they need

Partners learned about the gestational disease from the woman, but still felt a need for information from clinicians.

• Lack knowledge of later increased risk of CVD

• Eye openers

Emotional and practical partner support – an investment for the whole family.

• We must do something about this together

• I want to support and relieve her

• Practical everyday help

Partners expected clinicians to invite them to discuss lifestyle changes.

• An overlooked resource

• The mutual expectations of the partner and clinicians